Grief Isn’t a Problem to Solve

Apr 2, 2025
Lilac Flower

In a world that rewards productivity and resilience, grief can feel like a disruption — something to manage, to fix, or to get through quickly. But grief isn’t a problem. It’s a process. One that doesn’t follow rules, calendars, or polite timelines.

When someone we love dies, the world changes. And while logistics may demand urgency, our emotions rarely do. Grief is nonlinear. It revisits us in unexpected moments — a familiar song, an empty chair, a smell in the air.

So why do we feel pressure to “move on”?

At The Good Death Playbook, we believe grief isn’t something to be solved. It’s something to be held — with compassion, not correction. Sometimes that means naming it. Sometimes it means simply sitting beside someone who’s hurting, without trying to fix the pain.

Our platform includes resources for grief literacy, emotional preparation, and space for reflection. Not to tell you how to grieve — but to remind you that whatever you feel is valid, and however long it takes is okay.

Grief is love, in unfamiliar form. Let’s treat it that way — gently, honestly, and without hurry.